How Do I Feel When I Am 28 And Still Single?

What was the most toughest question when people asked you at the age 28?

What is the most frequent asked question when you are at your late 20s?

This building is behind library at Southeast University, Jiulonghu campus.

I will be 29 in the next few months.

Another wonderful year will pass soon.

My life is counting down day by day.

Many questions I were asked these 28 years.

When I was young, people asked me easy questions and I answered without hesitate.

When I am getting older, questions are not that simple and easy anymore and I need to answer many tough questions.

The most toughest question probably about career? Or about relationship (dating)?

I find both are killing questions.

I'm still studying at age 28 and no job.

Many of my friends about my age got marriage and have kid.

I'm still a clumpy person and crazy sometimes.

I don't even know what is couple life mean.

I just realized these last few years when my friends and neighbors asked me when I will get marriage or what I'm doing in the city right now.

I feel like I'm too old now.

They must think that it will be too late for me to get marriage at this age.

28 year old of course I must had been in love with someone.

I admit that the feeling of loving someone is the happiness also the sadness thing I have ever had.

The feeling of loving someone at young age is one of the best experiences in my life.

But sometimes love isn't last long especially when it happened when we were young.

We all grow up day by day until we are mature enough to think about strong relationship.

I am 28 but I still think that I'm still not yet mature and love always comes and goes.

That's why since last year I told myself to be happy and don't think about those questions.

Only myself who know clearly what I'm doing.

And I am so happy to do what I am doing right now without distracting from people around me.

Sometimes, I think if I want to go fast and far, I shouldn't tell anyone including my family.

Because I know clearly that my family usually disagree or don't like what I want to do or to be.

Therefore, these questions never bother me anymore.

What is bad to stay single and independent?

I found it so calm and peaceful.

Why?

From my experience of my last 2 years, when I don't think about relationship or marriage life, I feel so happy.

My mind is more clear and focus.

I already chose the way to walk and never regret from what I chose.

The best thing to do right now is to love what I'm doing and put more effort on it.

The two most important things for me nowadays are studying and making my blog grow successfully.

I hope you all will support me and cheer me up on my journey.

Also, I hope you are doing what you love as I am doing.

Don't be bother because of the number of your age.

Be happy with it because to reach that age means that you learnt many important things in life.

Another important thing is never regret of what are doing in the future.

This bridge will take you to two different destinations. One side will take you to teaching building and another side will take you to professors' building. To choose one you have to give up another one. But no matter you choose one among two, it will take you to the best place. So, be happy with what you are choosing and never regret.